The chapel was small, like the living room of somebody's house but it had an altar in it. I didn't know that's what it was called in the second grade; I just saw a big tall table with a white cloth, a shiny silver cup and a shiny silver plate. The picture window looked out onto the street, that would be the place the Christmas tree would go if it was the living room of somebody's house, I thought. The nuns lived in the house and the priest came every Friday to say mass, whatever that was. All I knew was that I was not allowed to "eat the bread," because I hadn't had my first communion and I didn't get to wear that really pretty white, crepe pinafore that Tina Halpin's mother had starched to perfection the way Tina, my best friend, got to, and it wasn't fair. And because of that I never got to taste the bread, which I know wasn't bread because it was really small, and really flat, and really round, and almost see through. But that's what they called it, bread.
It wasn't fair that the boys got to help the priest at the altar either. I thought about this a lot. Why did Tom, or Paul, or Robby get to help the priest but none of the girls did? My favorite part was when Paul, or one of the boys would carefully fold this really white, stiff, fancy cloth napkin over their arm, and in one hand hold this beautiful, shiny miniature silver pitcher and in his other hand hold a small glass bowl and then very precisely the priest would put his fingers together above the bowl while Paul ever so slowly and gently would pour the crystal clear water over his fingers. The Priest would very carefully rub his fingers together under the water, never splashing or sploshing the water around, and then take the really stiff napkin, dry his fingers, and fold the napkin precisely the way it had been before and laid it over Paul's arm again. Then Paul would take the items to the table and put them back where he found them.
The entire thing was magical. I was mesmerized by the words of the priest and couldn't figure out for the life of me how Jesus' body was turned into that really little, flat piece of see through "bread." I figured it was magic, that was how, and that it was super important because the priest washed his hands the same way every Friday, and said the same words and every Friday everybody else in my class got to eat the bread except me and Eric, who obviously didn't get his first communion either.
Mayfield Jr. School of the Holy Child, nuns, and priests, habits and collars, catholic and non, and Eric and I were in the very small percentage of non. My first recollection of religious difference, and just like everything else in 1971 in my family, no one thought to explain anything and I am not sure if I even asked.